I made the mistake of looking at each of these people's twitter accounts when this happened, and those of their friends who were in such pain and mourning and hope. This is devastating news. So young, so much promise and life that should have been ahead of her. My heart goes out to her family and her friends and the… » 11/01/14 3:06am Today 3:06am

Shiny, you're one of my favorite people in the Kinjaverse. Reliably kind, thoughtful, whip-smart. I'm sorry you've had a lot of disappointments and people have been terrible to you, but I hope you don't think that defines you. » 11/01/14 12:10am Today 12:10am

I'm puzzled by the question. This poor young woman seems to have had the terrible misfortune to run smack into the path of a serial predator/murderer. That kind of evil is not within the imaginational ambit of most of us, we can't really comprehend it. You see someone buying someone drinks, you don't assume "serial… » 10/30/14 9:12pm Thursday 9:12pm

Narcissism is close, but navel-gazing is less weighted with love of one's own beauty, and more with excessive over-thought and self-absorption; obsession with one's own ideas, not one's reflection. » 10/30/14 12:15am Thursday 12:15am