I'm so sorry for your loss. That's a great picture, thanks for sharing it with us. I hope your family's doing okay; I hope your mom is holding up, and congrats to your brother. That's so much to be dealing with all at once. » 9/30/14 10:45am Yesterday 10:45am

Thirteen years is a long time. Only you know what's best, but the facts as you've laid them out here sound pretty bleak to me. Couples have certainly made it through worse, but that's a tough row to hoe. Do you want to rebuild things? » 9/29/14 9:55pm Monday 9:55pm

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